I think we all agree with the principle that we can accomplish far more with warmth, support and consistent kindness, than we can through conflict, confrontation and assertive intervention.  There are times, too, when we are better off turning the other cheek, simply letting go of certain issues and situations.  Why, then, is it so difficult for some of us to grasp that concept?  Why are some things in life far easier said than done?  God bless those who have the capacity to forgive -- and forget!  It is written that "their's will be the Kingdom of Heaven".